The Power of letting go
You know, it’s funny how we spend so much of our lives trying to fit in, trying to dim our light so we don’t stand out too much. But let me tell you something I’ve learned the hard way: We weren’t put on this earth to blend in. We’re here to shine. And when you finally let go of all the stuff that’s holding you back—the fear, the doubt, the need for approval—you start to realize just how brilliant your light really is.
**Letting Go of the Need for Approval**
For the longest time, I was a people-pleaser. I’d bend over backward to make sure everyone else was happy, even if it meant dimming my own light. I thought that if I could just be “enough” for everyone else, then maybe, just maybe, I’d be worthy. But you know what? That’s exhausting. It’s draining. And it’s a lie.
The truth is, no matter how hard you try, you’re never going to be enough for everyone. And that’s okay. Because you weren’t meant to be. You were meant to be you—fully, unapologetically, beautifully YOU. And the moment you let go of the need for approval, you free yourself to be exactly who you’re meant to be.
** “You don’t need anyone’s permission to shine. Your light is already bright enough.”**
**Embracing Your Unique Gifts**
We all have gifts. Every single one of us. And the sad reality is that so many people go through life without ever fully embracing them. They let fear, doubt, or the opinions of others hold them back. But here’s the thing: The world needs your gifts. Your voice, your perspective, your talents—they matter.
For me, one of the hardest things to accept was that my voice mattered. That the things I had to say were worth hearing. But as I started sharing more of my truth, as I began to let my light shine, something amazing happened. People started to resonate with it. They started to feel seen, heard, and understood. And that’s when I realized: My light isn’t just for me—it’s for everyone who needs it.
** “Your light isn’t just yours. It’s a beacon for others who need to find their way.”**
**How to Start Shining Your Light**
If you’ve been hiding your light, it’s time to let it shine. Here’s how to get started:
1. **Acknowledge Your Gifts:** Take some time to reflect on what makes you unique. What are the talents, skills, or qualities that set you apart? Write them down, and don’t be modest. Own them. These are your SUPERPOWERS!
2. **Release the Fear:** Fear is the biggest thief of light. It convinces us to stay small, to play it safe, to blend in. But fear is just a feeling—it’s not reality. When you feel fear creeping in, remind yourself: You are worthy. You are enough. And your light deserves to shine.
3. **Take Inspired Action:** The more you step into your truth, the brighter your light becomes. Share your gifts, speak your truth, and let your light be seen. Whether it’s through your work, your relationships, or your creative pursuits, find ways to let your light shine.
** “You are the light you’ve been searching for. It’s time to let yourself be seen.”**
**My Journey to Shining My Light**
It wasn’t easy, and it didn’t happen overnight. There were years of self-doubt, insecurity, and fear. But little by little, I started to peel back the layers. I began to let go of the stories I’d been telling myself about who I “should” be, and I started to embrace who I truly am. And you know what? It feels damn good.
** “When you let go of who you think you should be, you make room for who you truly are.”**
**Newsletter Reflection Prompt:**
- What gifts have you been hiding from the world?
- How can you start letting go of the fear that’s holding you back?
- What would it look like to fully step into your light?