I remember when I was a younger and my girlfriends and I would gossip about our latest crush. We would sit around with flowers and pull the petals of flowers off saying “He loves me, he loves me not” always hoping the last would reveal , he did love me! Wouldn’t that be cool if that’s all we had to do to know we’re with the right person and everything would be sunsets and rainbows after that!

Not many people talk about how challenging it can be to blend 2 people’s lives together and make it work. If you choose to have children, that adds a whole other layer and your relationship can often feel more like a job. It’s a balancing act and one, in my opinion, society doesn’t talk about or teach us on how to achieve a healthy relationship.

Being in love, in my experience and those I’ve coached, does not always equate to a good relationship.  So many factors go into a relationship!  

We’ll look at patterns, compromising, authenticity, sex, stages in life, what is “changeable” in ourselves and our partner and so much more.